If you are a father who is facing a custody case in New Mexico, it is important to understand your rights, the potential outcomes of the case, and find experienced father’s rights attorneys in New Mexico. Too often, fathers enter into custody proceedings without an understanding of what they can do to improve their chances of getting a more desired custody agreement. Understanding your rights and knowing what battles you may face throughout your custody case can help you achieve a more desired custody agreement.
The Truth About Father’s Rights in New Mexico
The fact of the matter is that there are no separate rights for fathers or mothers. Both parents are entitled to the same rights. Father’s rights in New Mexico are governed by the state’s custody statutes. These laws give both parents the right to be involved in their child’s life and to make decisions about their welfare.
However, these laws also give preference to the mother in most cases. This is because the courts have traditionally favored the mother in custody proceedings. Thankfully, this is beginning to change as more and more fathers are becoming more involved in their children’s lives. The trend is slowly shifting towards giving both parents equal rights in custody cases as long as you can show the courts it would be in the best interests of the child.
Hope for the Best, Prepare for the Worst
While you should still have hope that the courts will rule in your favor or that you’ll be able to come to an amicable custody agreement with the mother of your children, this isn’t always the case. It is important to know common arguments mothers make in court and what the answer is. Here are some common arguments made that can be used to prevent you from achieving the custody agreement you are hoping for:
Argument 1: It isn’t possible to co-parent effectively
The very first thing that you need to consider is how you’re going to communicate with your wife or if you’re not married to the mother of your children. You need to prove you can be a good co-parent.
Argument 2: The Father’s Schedule Can’t Accommodate a 50-50 Custody Agreement
The second argument that is made against a 50-50 custody arrangement, is that the father’s schedule simply cannot accommodate it. Almost always this has to do with the father’s work schedule, and his inability to spend time with the kids during his periods of responsibility. Another component of setting yourself up for success is getting your schedule in shape so that you can demonstrate to the court that a shared custody arrangement is appropriate.
Argument 3: This isn’t in the Best Interests of the Child
The third mistake that many men make, and that unfortunately many father’s rights law firms make, is not framing their proposed custody schedule in the idea of the best interests of the child. The legal standard is always going to be what is in the best interest of the child. Women will often argue that a 50-50 custody arrangement is not in the best interests of the child. Focus on how you can be adding to your child’s life as a parent. The most obvious rebuttal to this argument is that children are usually very bonded with both parents and that a father can provide a unique experience for the children
Preparing for these potential arguments can help you prepare for your custody case, but there is still more you can do to better your chances of getting 50-50 custody.
Steps You Can Take to Improve the Outcomes of Your Custody Case
If you are a father who is facing a custody case, there are some steps you can take to improve your chances of getting the custody arrangement that you want and that is in the best interests of your child.
First, it is important to understand the law and how it applies to your case. The best thing you can do right now is hire an experienced family law attorney who can help you protect your parental rights and help you navigate through your custody case.
Second, be involved in your child’s life. The more involved you are, the better your chances will be of getting the custody arrangement that you want.
Third, be prepared to show the court that you are the best parent for your child. This means being able to provide a stable home environment, being able to financially support your child, and having a good relationship with your child.
Fourth, be prepared to compromise. In many cases, the best way to get the custody arrangement that you want is to be willing to compromise with the other parent.
Fifth, keep a positive relationship with the other parent. If you can maintain a positive relationship with the other parent, it will go a long way in helping you get the custody arrangement that you want.
Finding the Right Custody Attorney
You may see attorneys claiming to be advocates for father’s rights and while they may be, it would be wise to steer clear of these types of attorneys. Attorneys that are known for being father’s rights attorneys may have a biased reputation with the courts. Instead of looking for a father’s rights attorney or bulldog lawyer, look for an experienced divorce & family law attorney.
They will be able to help you navigate through your custody case and improve your chances of getting 50-50 custody. An experienced custody lawyer can help you prove to the courts that you are a good father and that sharing custody is in the best interests of your child.
New Mexico Legal Group Can Help
If you are a father facing a custody case, it is important to consult with an attorney who has extensive experience handling child custody cases. The New Mexico Legal Group attorneys can help you navigate the process and ensure that your rights are protected all while saving you time and money. If you have any questions regarding divorce or child custody matters, contact us today at 505-843-7303 (Albuquerque) or 575-339-2100 (Las Cruces).